Here’s the scenario. Nightclubs  close at 2AM in California. Many clubs start ushering people out shortly prior. I have no problem with that. Tonight, at 1:45 the music was turned off and the security personnel announced closing time. I live 50 miles from Long Beach and needed to use the restroom. It’s a natural thing. A bar sells drinks; customers need to use the restroom. So I did what I normally do; I went to use the restroom before hitting the road. A bouncer told me that the restroom was closed. It was still 1:45 at this time. I told him I had a long drive ahead and needed to use the restroom before making that drive. He said no again. I tried to walk around him. I was then put in a choke hold by another bouncer (who came up from behind) and literally lifted off the floor by his arm around my neck. I was then carried to the door (by his arm around my neck) and literally thrown out. According to a witness, three of them were in on this assault.

I am 49 years old and 5′ 3″ tall. I really don’t pose a physical threat. I have never been thrown out of a club or assaulted in such a way. Anyone who knows me knows that I don’t start physical altercations, nor do I get belligerent. In fact, I often become friends with the bouncers at clubs because they know I’m not a a trouble maker.

The reason I’m writing this is that nightclub bouncers sometimes go too far and they usually get away with it. Some even seem to get off on it. I’ve seen it happen a number of times, but never expected to be personally involved in such an altercation. Now that I am home, I am already feeling pain from this assault. This type of thing simply should not happen. It would not have happened if the bouncers involved had any sense of humanity or even a sense of how a business should treat its customers. The club promoter apologized to me and I believe she is sincere. However she does not own the establishment and doesn’t have control of its employees. So her apology does not solve the problem. I don’t know what legal recourse I have, but I will likely have to pursue this further.

I welcome comments / opinions. If you are an attorney who practices this type of law in California and wish to contact me, please do so via email at bk_btg@yahoo.com.

 

The one Saturday per month club in Long Beach, California was this weekend. I found Miranda before I even got inside. She had a new friend with her (to my left in the photos.) I plan to be doing a shoot with her this week as well as a new shoot with Miranda so she can show off her new boobs. Stay tuned. By the way, this club will be moving back to Hamburger Mary’s in Long Beach in two weeks and will be held on the first Saturday of each month.

 

I had a series of unfortunate (computer related) events over the past few weeks. One evening, my computer (Macbook Pro) started acting up. My video conversion program stopped working among other things. So I decided to do a reboot. Unfortunately the computer would not reboot. I took my Macbook to the “Genius” bar at my local Apple store. Unfortunately all the genius could come up with was to reformat the hard drive and restore my system from a backup. Reformatting a hard drive should be the last resort. Unfortunately that step is typically much higher on the list of “Genius” bar techs, which is why  I used quotes around that word. They don’t seem to really want to dig into a problem. The prospect of reformatting a hard drive with important files scares me. But I figured I have complete backup on my Apple time capsule. So it should not have been a problem.

So I went home and followed the genius’ instructions (which I later found out to be partially incorrect.) As bad luck would have it, by time capsule failed during the restore process. Fortunately, most of my applications were restored along with some key files before the failure. But lost a bunch.

I’m pretty anal about data security and had backups to my backup. Unfortunately I had been lackadaisical and had not updated those since March 15. So I had a big hole of missing files, which is a real bitch since I run my business with my computer. I found a data recovery business in Baltimore called Mac Medics. I had to send my time capsule to them. It took them several days, but were finally able to restore most of what was lost. They bailed me out.

I wanted to share this with my readers because data security is important. If you have important files on your computer, maintain at least two backups. I learned a few other things I want to share. One is I had a first generation Apple Time Capsule which I learned was a problematic product from the beginning. The combination of the Apple Time Machine software and the Time Capsule hardware is a great concept and has worked for me in the past, but it failed on me this time. This has caused me to change how I operate. I trashed my time capsule as it can no longer be trusted. I still use the Time Machine software, but with a standard external hard drive. I’m also going to update my second backup weekly and my third backup monthly.  This mess has cost me about $800 and dozens of lost hours. I don’t want that to happen again.

I also have some advice for those of you who have Apple computers. If your computer has a hardware failure look for a third party Apple authorized repair shop. Here’s why. Last year the motherboard failed in my Macbook. I took it to the Apple store like most people would. They can’t fix anything in the store. They wanted to take my computer and ship it to a repair facility in Texas and I would be without it for two weeks. I found a shop in my area called Comp Solutions in Northridge. They were able to get a new motherboard in two days and it was repaired the day the new part arrived – all under warranty. The Apple store is fine for configuration problems or if you simply need help with something you don’t understand. But if you need a repair and need your system back up quickly, I found the other method is much better.  Ok, that’s it carry on.

 

Last week was problematic. My hard drive decided to take a dump, then my backup did the same. I was able to recover some important files, but lost a bunch as well. I had to send my backup drive to a data recovery business. Hopefully they will save it. But enough about that.

Jasmine Jewels and I have become friends this year. We ended up hanging out all day Saturday. The first stop was Don Cucos in Burbank for lunch and a couple of margaritas. Then we escaped the 110 degree heat in my pool for a few hours. Then it was off to our favorite bar Tiki No in North Hollywood. They have the best Mai Tais there. Then it was off to Bob’s Big Boy for a late night bite. We had a good time discussing photography and a variety of other things.

As we were leaving, three of my other friends showed up at Bob’s. So Jasmine hit the road, I went back in and got home around 4:30AM

Then on Sunday, my niece who just turned 29 came over with her two and a half year old boy for some pool time and barbecue. He’s a cute kid, but I’ll tell you, they don’t call it “Terrible Twos” for nothing. I don’t know how parents cope. Lol.

Then, I went to play golf with my brother, niece and another friend. I’m just a beginner at golf, but it is fun even if I do suck at it. :) Now it’s Sunday evening. I’m chilling out, and just played a great game of frisbee golf on my Play Station Move. That’s the golf I’m good at. So that was my weekend. I hope you all had a good one too.

Bob

 

So I went to Adultcon today. It was actually the first time I attended. I always figure these conventions are going to be boring, which they sometimes are. But to my surprise, I had a good time.

Grooby has a booth there, with some of our favorite tgirls hanging out there. More on that later.

Besides my love for tgirls, I also love Asian girls. I met a few of them at their booths. Being the forgetful person that I can be, I left my camera in the other car. Fortunately Ben in LA was there and took some great pics. I’m waiting for him to send me a few so I can share them here (hopefully later on Sunday.) Of course you’ll see plenty on his blog too.

In the meantime, I did take pics with two of the girls and they printed them for me. So I scanned those and posted them here. The two lovely ladies you see below are Emkay Vee and Jelly Ranger. They are both working on their websites. I look forward to their completion.

 

On Wednesday afternoon, I received a text message from Foxxy. She said she was doing a thing called “Cocktails with the Stars” at Mickeys (a popular gay bar/nightclub in West Hollywood) and asked me if I would come. So I did. When I arrived, Foxxy was on a sofa with some male porn actors being interviewed for the Cocktails with the Stars internet radio show. She was promoting her TSFoxxy website. The adorable Carmen Moore was at the bar with her equally adorable sister Mya. Mandy Mitchell arrived a few minutes later. Carmen and I ended up on the sofa with Foxxy later for some Q&A. Afterward we went to a cantina next door for some Margaritas and tacos. It was a fun evening with these cuties.

Of course you can also see the girls in Bob’s Tgirls.

 

Last week was eventful for me personally. I had a date with one of my favorite tgirls early in the week. I had one with one of my favorite genetic girls later in the week. Had a good photoshoot, saw Transformers 3 in 3D, and had a 4th of July party. It was good to have a little less work and a little more play for a change.:)

 

For some time, I have been looking for an opportunity to have access to a studio to shoot in. Such an opportunity has come my way. This not only gives me new options for settings to shoot the models in, but will enable me to learn new techniques and become a better photographer. I’m excited by this and having fun with it already. Below are some shots from the first set I shot there with Bambi. The entire set went live on Bob’s Tgirls this Thursday, May 20.

 

I spent the weekend in San Diego with Alisha a few weeks ago. We spent Sunday afternoon on the USS Midway museum. For years, I’ve wanted to tour an aircraft carrier. I actually did not know that the museum existed. Alisha was in SD a few days ahead of me. I told I wanted to tour an aircraft carrier. She looked it up for me. It was awesome. Now if I could get a tour of an active duty Nimitz class carrier, I’d get a major woody. :) In my opinion, the Nimitz class carrier is the most incredible amalgamation of technology and engineering the world has ever seen. Are there any Navy guys out there that could hook an Air Force brother up? I’d also love a tour of a Los Angeles or Seawolf class sub. So here’s a few of the shots I took.

 

As I mentioned in my previous post, Jessica and her friend Amber did come to visit on Monday and stayed through Wednesday. It was a fun filled three days. I’m kinda worn out. On Monday we went out for some Brazilian Barbecue at Gaucho’s Village in Glendale, CA.

On Tuesday we went to the studio (you’ll find out about the studio soon) to do a new photoshoot. On the way we hit the mall to get some accessories and lingerie at Fredericks of Hollywood, then went to the Mac counter at Macy’s to get her makeup done. Then a mani/pedicure. We didn’t get to the studio until after 8PM and didn’t get back to the house until about 3AM. We were starving after the shoot so we hit Tommy’s Burgers on the way home.

On Wednesday we went grocery shopping and then had the first barbecue of the season here at my place. Jessica’s friend took the first 3 photos below with her phone and I took the others with my iPhone. It was great to hang with Jessica again – my homie from the Bronx. The house seemed a bit lonely and too quiet after I returned from dropping them off at the airport. I hope they come back soon.

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